You never ready to let your loved one’s go! You just do it….
I haven’t seen death in front of my eyes, specially death of our own parents. I find myself very lucky enough in this case but my father isn’t. I heard him talking to my mom; that he was very upset that he didn’t get to see his father for one last time but he was relieved that he did everything that he could and he was just right beside his mother when she died. My grandparents were loving and caring person. My father is a very strong person emotionally; he never cried in front of us but when they died he cried alot. He is kind of introvert, never let others feel what he is feeling; shows his extreme love towards them.
This is when i realize that how much it counts for a person to stay with their parents in their last time and pay their due respect. You just wanna be there, hear them talking and pray every moment hoping that this is not the time for them to leave.
He think about his mother’s last words off time ” Come! Sit near me…..”
I always keep wondering will there be enough time to talk and share everything you have?
The answer is NO!
There will never be enough time to spend. You just stay there, listen to them carefully. Let them talk about everything they wants to talk about, record their voice in your mind and memorise everything. Just keep sitting there, holding their hands and show your love in every possible way that you can.
As we all just want to be surrounded by our loved one’s at out last moment specially when you know it’s time. Time for us to leave.