love you!

I write down all about you everyday, right from the beginning we met each other.

how handsome you are, how you eat, your facial expressions, your warm breath, your likes or dislikes,how hard you work everyday, how kind and sweet you are, almost every possible thing that i can relate. I work very hard everyday to make you smile.

just in case if i forget about everything one day, this will help me to remember you again

I’ll be there for you, until my last breath.

I am the only one in this entire world to love you for all my life.

Only i love you!

 

Patriarchy

Patriarchy is a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. Male dominated society  reluctant to accept that fact that women can be as good as  they are or even more. Most of the people say there is ultimately only one way to change the patriarchal mentality of any society,‘That is proper education’. In my opinion, we should focus more towards the humanity.  I mean the comprehensive system of inculcating values in the minds of young boys and girls that men and women are equal and everyone deserves respect and equal opportunities.  As parents are first teacher for every children hence it’s there sole responsibility to teach proper manners,etiquette and ethics. If such ideas of equality are not introduced to young students from a young age consistently, then they will grow and become part of the patriarchy that is Indian society.

For grown men who are already patriarchal, there is no way to to change them. Any effort in order to change their mentality is just another lame effort.They already attained the age when the mind is no longer willing to learn or adapt. They stick to their old prejudices and concepts about women and how they should behave.The man who eve tease, abuse, rape, beat and harass women will never change. They must be given punishments harsh enough to mark in the minds of other patriarchal men the sense of fear. Because, since you cannot educate these men, the only way you can stop them from doing stuff like this is through fear.

Nowadays where education is everyone’s right and people are more educated than before. It’s really wrong to say education is the only cause of discrimination against women. Even the most educated men in the society don’t have the required amount of humanity and ethics to stop harassment, rape and other abusive act  from happening,which is shameful. It takes guts and will power to stand against these inhuman act if happening around yourself. Most of the people in country like India don’t even come to help if it’s happening around them, just to avoid unnecessary trouble for them. They deny saying as this not happening to our own family member.Which brings tear in my eyes thinking about it.

The one and only thing that can bring back equality is hitting the very young minds with humanity, ethics and moral policing at the right time. HOPEFULLY after few years in future there won’t be any need of discussing about patriarchy as serious issue on social media. 

 

Even if…..

I will be there even if you don’t want me

I will cheer you up if you are sad

I will cry when you cry, just to give you company.

so that you won’t feel lonely, even if you tell me that’s insane.

I will laugh at your joke even if it’s stupid one.

All i can tell you that i will be there even when life is upside down.

 

 

 

Creating the new!

Creating the new art is like it’s new start from the very beginning. You have to start the whole process again from the scrap. Picking the whole pieces and struggling to join and formulate some thing big, more like a puzzle. A step into unknown out of which outcome is unpredictable.

Yesterday i got a call from a very good college friend, was’t expecting at all. She said that she gonna stay at my place tomorrow. I was happy and making arrangements for her stay. We both are from totally different states and languages, but only platform at which we fit together is our helping attitude, loving nature and caring methodology for all. When we met in the afternoon, she was with her very close friend with her dad guiding to interview hall in the uptown. Then i realize that actually she didn’t took leave from job just to spend time with me but to guide her very near and dear friend to interview place. It was so embarrassing as her friend didn’t even talked and when i asked them to drop me to home, they refused giving an excuse and just left.

Oh my god! when priorities are different they these things might happen with you too. In that moment of time i realized that how busy our lives have now become. Realized how small differences can affect you at some point of time in life, but these differences clear the picture of our own desires and needs. Out all this the good thing that happen to me was that i accidentally met very old school friend of mine. He was there too for the interview. He hardly changed since then, still have great sense of humor and funny  person. Tension word never litter around him, optimistic and friendly as ever. Sometimes real life also have happy endings.

Now i gotta take my friendship to different level, moving horizontally  and starting new with less expectations and more love. Hopefully me meet again with more enthusiasm and fresh start.

 

Let me know

Let me know what you feeling…

Oh dear! it’s okay to share,

Would you walk with me holding my hands?

Would you put your arms around me when i need it and say it’s all okay?

Would you cry when I cry?

Would you die for the one you love?

Oh dear tell me this, because i can do all for you everyday.

I can be your companion.

I can be your one and only to stand by your side forever.

I will hear all your stories as i have a longing for you.

You care about me as much as i care about you.

People are always mean to us,

they are judgmental even if we didn’t mean it.

It’s okay to speak it out,

It’s okay to complain when you feel hurt.

As it’s not okay to keep things that’s killing you from inside.

It’s okay to share because i’m there for you.

Just tell me when you need me.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Off the chain!

Sometimes we are off the hook,creating the weird look.

Forgetting all we can do,focusing on what we can’t do.

Take a long breathe, do not rush to react.

Life will push you hard and rip you to shreds.

This not the end but the feeling of lost will haunt you till the end.

Catch hold on to things, that creates positive vibes around the hinge.

Keep moving towards a new day and a new life.

Say Goodbye to all the Darkness in disguise.

Your call…

Career is solo act. We decide, we work hard overcoming every obstacles and win. The isolation can starts to define you because even thou you are surrounded by many people. What really comes down is your choices, your training, your passion and your work. It comes down to your choices. These choices latter become your daily routine and then your habit. Following 6 ways will really be helpful to stay focused and single minded.

6 ways to stay focused on your career

1. Daily reading

Make sure that you staying in touch with books on continuous bases. Reading habits proved beneficial by many billionaires like Warren Buffet, Bill Gates, Elon Musk. Read for at least one hour a day. If that’s too much, start with 20 minutes [a day] and do it for one month (habit). Although it sounds crazy but trust me it not only helpful but also keep you posted about upcoming updates.

2. Create small targets

Completing a large project is daunting when you don’t know where to begin. How can you finish if you don’t even know where you’re starting? So, rather than focusing on a large, scary goal, take one thing at a time, and break the big goal into ideas you can digest one at a time.

3. Do meditation

Keep your laziness aside and dedicate approximately an hour for meditation. This will not only keep you focused but also help you to remain healthy.

4. Stop worrying about things that doesn’t matter

You will stay more consistently motivated if you’re working on activities that are inherently meaningful or are part of a larger mission.Doing things that don’t mean anything costs [us] a ton of mental energy. Look at your aggregated to-do list, find things you know that you don’t care about, and get rid of as many of these activities as possible.

It’s not always best to finish what you started if, down the line, you can’t even remember the reason you started something in the first place.

5. Set time 

You need to give yourself a rest, and if that means giving yourself a specified set time to unplug or turn away from the demands of your job, then do it. It’s likely to help you perform harder and smarter in the hours that you do allot for work. It’s unrealistic to feel energized all the time, to want to plow through tasks all the time.

6. Do it

Instead of waiting around, willing yourself to feel motivated, what if you just went ahead and started doing the work you know you need to do? Dive into the project and trust that the focus will be what you need.

All that matters!

Generally What we do when our favorite dress doesn’t fit us anymore?

We have two options; Either buy another dress or do workout just to fit in that favorite dress of yours. Easiest way out is to buy another. The game changer is the one who willingly  work hard for hours, just to fit in that dress. What matters the most is who you love, Because at the end of the day all that matters to you the most is their love and affection. We spend our whole lives worrying about the future, trying to predict future. As if figuring it out, will clear the blow;But the future is always changing. One thing is certain, way finally reveals itself. Why to worry if you can’t control?

Few years back in college, I met two very important persons of my life at the very same time. One was’t happy about my friendship with the other. Later down the road one became true love of my life and other just vanished unknowingly. One showed me how to love unconditionally and other taught me the most important life lesson”Don’t ever trust the one who is sweet to your face! “they are the one with the highest probability of back stabbing.

As a human, we make mistakes. We call it wrong, people get it wrong. People get hurt,they bleed. So we struggle over every stitch, we agonize over every future possibilities because every snap judgement which come to us quickly without hesitation; they are the one who haunt us for the rest of our lives forever.

I just wanna thank both of you for life changing experiences. All that matters me is the one who stayed with me and still there for me even in the worst. You find n number of people in happy days but just few to drag you out of dark.

 

 

Visualizing and Planning your Dreams

One of the finest thing in life that keeps motivating is HOPE! Dreams provide platform for HOPE.You dream lots of things that you desire to happen in reality but probability of its occurrence in the same way is quite low. Are you a day dreamer? What are those? Does your dreams let you sleep peacefully? Is there any connection with reality?

“Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn’t go away.”
Philip K. Dick

whatever you dream there’s a reason for it: to be realized as part of fulfilling  your life goals. There’s always some connection with your desires and minds creativity.Most of us have trouble finding the potential of their dreams; they give upon them as they are unable to find the way to make them true.Many times we don’t even have adequate time and will to face the challenges that may fall while walking down through that path; or we are just unwilling to follow the less traveled path. Have patience! Although your dream may not come to just pass yet, it can still be realized. You can still fulfill your dreams and make it reality.

Well! You can’t force dream to happen. Just like you can’t plan a perfect travel trip without prior preparations and arrangements.You won’t magically arrive there.You must plan and work toward what you want.Same is true with your dreams if you want them to come to reality.Even if you try and fail, keep trying, take small simple steps forward. Your dreams have value; keep moving toward them, even if you face setbacks and challenges.  Moving forward with your dreams means starting with the first baby step, that’s how you succeed.

In addition to physically working hard to make dreams reality, mental preparedness is also important. In fact! mental preparation plays key role in the whole process. Remaining optimistic despite criticism of any kind will be quite helpful; Staying firm and optimistic about your dream will help you going through difficult times. Just hold on to what you believe in and what you want to see happen in your life.Use the power of positive thinking in order to see your dream coming to fruition.

Try these techniques:

  • Talk with others who share your dreams and goals to stay encouraged and excited.(Specially your parents, if you are close to them. They are truest of all!)
  • Broaden you vision and keep updating.
  • Write the down and always remember to keep them fresh in your mind. I have a manual just for big dreams and a special column just for steps involved to make them reality.
  • keep a journal of what you’ve done toward realizing your dreams each day or each week.
  • Specifically remember to enjoy and respect the present moment. Then you’ll be well practiced when your dreams do come to pass!
  • Many successful people focus on positive affirmations and meditation to help make their dreams a reality.Meditation gives your mind some quiet, peaceful time to work behind the scenes.

Just because the way to your dream doesn’t seem obvious to you just now, that doesn’t mean there isn’t a way. Many of us have hard times finding what we are good at, along with peace deep down inside ourselves in what we do and What we want from life?. Following your dreams can just help you figure this out all by yourself.

Don’t lose HOPE at any point because anything can happen in life at any point of time. Just be positive.Create your affirmations around the positive amazing feelings that surround your dreams, so that you can keep your vibes high and you can let the “how’s” go and allow the universe to take care of that for you.

If you hold tight to your goals, you’ll find it easier to stay on the right track.

Regardless of what your dreams are – however big or small they may be — you can usher them in to your life!

Simple small steps every day, moving toward your dreams will get there.

Enjoy the journey! Keep dreaming! Keep chasing! You never know whats hidden for you.